Esther Perel is a therapist who is bringing her years of working with couples into the public consciousness. I’m grateful to her for doing so. Here is a short video of her talking about the aspects of a successful relationship. http://uk.businessinsider.com/esther-perel-how-to-make-relationships-work-thrive-home-office-2015-3

If you like this and want more, her fabulous podcast “Where should we begin?” gives us a fly on the wall view of real couples counselling sessions.  Although Pairs Coaching in a business setting is not the same as couples counselling, there are some parallels.  https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798?mt=2